Oof, here’s a little contrast to my last post. Conor Oberst has somehow managed to create a bittersweet ballad begging for true love while confronted with the fact it may not exist, at least for him. This song captures the contempt you feel towards other happy lovers while only wanting ‘one desire’ great enough to warrant sonnets and dealing with that, despite your feelings, your love has proven temporary. 

Because that’s all that you’ll get so you’ll have to accept
You are here and then you’re gone

I’d make Conor a mix CD and tell him not to give up since even the temporary experience of life will seem to last forever, so there can be an experience of love as lasting. We seem to agree, since he resolves with contrasting sentiments to the rest of the song that lovers should be

left there to sleep
Left there to dream of their happiness

because even if their romance does fail they deserve to be blindly happy while it lasts. There is even the glimmer of hope that for some people - their happiness does not ever end.


(Source: Spotify)


One of my favorite indie love songs, because who doesn’t love jamming to lyrically brilliant brit-pop? It really accurately captures a youthful relationship, where love is perhaps a little one-sided, but nevertheless consuming. David Feck asks his lover, in true romantic fashion, to change the world and forget the rules as he would for her. He acknowledges the fighting, insecurity, hate and inherently the forgiveness that’s just a part of being in love.

What is this strange feeling
Is it insecurity?
We say we hate each other sometimes
But I’ll keep trying if you’ll keep trying
And underneath the tears I can see
The way you’re looking at me
Yeah, and I can dig that

This is a truly honest love song with a totally rad sound. Throw it on a mix when you want to let your sweetheart know you can handle even the shitty parts of a relationship ‘cause you love em.

(Source: Spotify)